anyways, i'm over the fight and we are seriously considering after our long walk at midnight last night with clutch and cloe that maybe a regular family is not for us. our family are dramatic and no one can deny it. my side usually particularly and so i'm pretty shocked that they've been nothing short of amazingly supportive with not one complaint from their mouths, for which i'm entirely grateful. but we have decided that maybe a bahamas wedding. with just us two. is right up our alley. we would have small reception when we got back i suppose but nothing more. we try very hard to keep confrontation, fights, h.s. arguing, and general b.s. out of our lives and so by having a wedding it would be inviting an excess of what we try soooo hard to keep out right through our front door. When we started planning we really didn't think there would be such a problem with having a small wedding. we understand that his side especially that its a large family. but what i really thought was that being decent, truly normal (probably one of the most normal families i've ever met) i thought that they would understand that we would only be inviting part of the family for more than one reason and for no reason that was a personal attack of any sort. AT ALL. we are in the middle of a recession and i know my list was missing a few people which is why we really thought that people would understand if we didn't invite the ENTIRE family.
Anyways. we are considering a sandals wedding which sounds amaaazing, stress free and not to mention about the same cost as our budget originally.
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